Stephen wrote:
> On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 07:38:08 EST, "nemesis" <nam### [at] gmailcom> wrote:
> 
>> Stephen <mcavoysATaolDOTcom@> wrote:
>>> I suspect it is violence in the home. Not domestic violence but violence on TV
>>> and the movies. Bang, bang you are dead. Click! You are alive again. It doesn't
>>> hurt.
>> Our grandparents and parents seemed unaffected by years of exposure to Warner
>> Bros. cartoons, first in the movie theaters, then in saturday morning TV.
>>
>>
> That could be because no one could mistake bugs bunny or Popeye for real life.

but they seemingly can mistake Doom or Quake monsters for other people...

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On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 11:00:05 -0300, nemesis <nam### [at] nospamgmailcom>
wrote:

>> That could be because no one could mistake bugs bunny or Popeye for real life.
>
>but they seemingly can mistake Doom or Quake monsters for other people...

Could that be because they are interactive and cartoons are passive? IDK just a
guess.

Regards
	Stephen

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From: "John Walters, White House drug czar"
To: alp### [at] earthlinknet
Subject: Don't help the Marijuana Policy Project.



Dear alphaQuad:


the gauntlet.

I'm concerned. Last year, you and MPP made my life difficult by making Rhode

law in Vermont.



card pledge to MPP  to support the following state lobbying activities this
year.

MPP has retained professional lobbyists to pass medical marijuana bills in


coalition of medical marijuana supporters are working to pass legislation that
would prevent local and state law enforcement officials from cooperating with
the DEA in its raids on medical marijuana patients and providers.

Worse yet, MPP is spending your money to pass marijuana decriminalization bills
in New Hampshire and Vermont. Local press reports have been favorable  to the

bill by a 4-1 vote just five days ago!

In Ohio and Kansas, recipients of MPP grant money are working to pass medical
marijuana bills in both states.


bills are also pending or imminent in Missouri, Illinois, and Tennessee.





Wtih no love at all,
John Walters


with a cold heart" in his interview with the Austin Chronicle
<http://control.mpp.org/site/R?i=vO9lDycQZKaE-Z4AEbh5Wg..> in August. Who the
heck does Mr. Kampia think he is?



From: alp### [at] earthlinknet"
To: "John Walters, White House drug czar"
Subject: making your life difficult

Dear John Walters,

May you suffer to the extent you have caused others to suffer. I'll be donating
$50,000 this year. You are not only an "ugly man with a cold DEAD heart" but
the source of suffering for millions due to your insane greed.

Sincerely,
alphaQuad


Now Jim, you said you are doing something to make a difference. Try doing
something that will really make a difference. Like I am.

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Stephen wrote:
> On Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:32:35 -0500, Sabrina Kilian <"ykgp at vtSPAM.edu"> wrote:
> 
>> Stephen wrote:
>>> On Fri, 15 Feb 2008 11:51:11 -0500, Sabrina Kilian <"ykgp at vtSPAM.edu"> wrote:
>>>
>>> [Snip for brevity]
>>>
>>> To reply to your last point (mine) first. I think that you are right, gun laws
>>> won't help. It is too late for you, (not personally) there are too many guns in
>>> circulation and the belief that you need a firearm to defend yourself too
>>> ingrained. To quote a long dead poet who died in a fight. Why, this is Hell nor
>>> am I out of it.
>> I disagree with the observations, but not the quote.
>>
> I don't know if that is an observation I thought that it was a belief. But
> please correct me if you see things differently. You live there whilst I am only
> an onlooker. And I don't like the conclusions that I have come to and would like
> to be wrong
> 

Hmm, I thought the observation was that it is too late. Or the
observation of the facts that lead to you having that belief.

>> The problem that I saw, first hand in the USA high school system, is
>> that there is often no hope. I don't work in a school, so I can't
>> observe how it's changed over time. But I did ask some others people for
>> their memories of school. There have always been cliques, but it seems
>> that kids have been getting more and more insular and stopped talking to
>> people not in their group. Whether the 5 year olds playing team sports,
>> or parents arranging strict play dates is to blame for this is another
>> discussion.
>>
> I don't have children myself so no personal experience but the trend in the UK
> seems to be going the same way.
> 

No kids here either, I'm going by what I remember, what I saw when my
sister was in school, and what I've seen since then from cousins and such.

>> So kids grow up with much less of a safety net, and very few people to
>> talk to when things go wrong. Take a common occurrence, a fight within
>> one of these small groups of kids. One kid singled out, where do they go
>> and who can they turn to?
>>
>> IMO, the problem isn't the guns or these kids either killing themselves
>> or killing others before they kill them self. It's that these situations
>> occur in the first place.
>>
> Some people say that modern society is changing too fast for us to adapt to it
> safely. I think that this has a kernel of truth. The demise of the nuclear
> family plays a part.
> 

Is that the demise of the family with regard to single parents and
non-traditional families, or the other movement to return to large
extended families?

>>> As for depression and drugs; it would probably be better (IMO) if drugs were
>>> used as a last resort if at all. But then you would have to put more effort into
>>> helping people which would not be as profitable to the established money makers.
>> You haven't seen what counselors charge by the hour, have you? The drugs
>> are common because they are the cheap answer, cheap enough to be
>> available to the people who really should be getting counseling but
>> can't afford it.
> 
> No I've got no idea at all. But surely it is cheaper for society to pay for it
> than pay for the outcome. (Yes I am a socialist). Having said that I also
> question the beneficial effect of counselling. In fact I think that in a lot of
> cases it makes things worse. I makes people dwell on things too much. I also
> think that "closure" is over rated as well. What is wrong with being sad and
> letting time cure your ails rather than forcing an end to your problems.
> 
100$ an hour seems to be the going rate here. Insurance companies can
dictate what they will pay, but make doctors charge the same thing to
everyone and therefor dictate what the uninsured pay too. Screwed up
system. 100$ a month for a one hour session, or the latest 45$ a month
pill, or an older pill at 8$ a month?

No argument from me on the first part. It would be a lot cheaper for
society. The second one, though . . .

I don't think counseling is about getting a person 'over' an event or an
issue. When you have a tough math problem, that you have no idea how to
solve, you don't 'get over it.' You study, learn what the notation
means, figure out how the problem is expressed, and then work through it
step by step. What do you do with a problem in life that you have no
frame of reference for how to solve?

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nemesis wrote:
> Stephen <mcavoysATaolDOTcom@> wrote:
>> I suspect it is violence in the home. Not domestic violence but violence on TV
>> and the movies. Bang, bang you are dead. Click! You are alive again. It doesn't
>> hurt.
> 
> Our grandparents and parents seemed unaffected by years of exposure to Warner
> Bros. cartoons, first in the movie theaters, then in saturday morning TV.
> 
> 

Or the exposure to war.

The violence isn't the problem, it's that the consequence isn't real.
Punch your little sister, and the worst you get is sent to your room
where you have your own TV and video games, and maybe even computer.
Grounded for a week? Don't worry, you can still play video games online.
Schools give Ds instead of Fs, and detention might interfere with after
school sports so that's out too.

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Why am I so angry? Well let me tell you.

(accomplished)

What matters is that I am angry and for a good reason.

It seems the boob toob is so powerful, and the millions sit there with a blank
stare and get programmed. Such a challenge, no wonder I forgot my lines.


http://www.mpp.org/news/in-the-news/reefer-madness.html
"
RM: What about John Walters [the drug czar, head of the White House Office of
the National Drug Control Policy?]
RK: [He's] an ugly man with a cold heart. Ultimately [the argument against
legalizing marijuana] comes down to a hatred for people who are different from
you. That's what is driving a lot of the prohibitionists ... they say, 'this
person does drug whatever, [and] I don't, therefore I want to have them
arrested and maybe even tortured, thrown in jail.' And the results [of that]
don't matter. These people aren't looking at the reports for the frequency with
which drug offenders put in jail are recidivists. They don't care. It's all very

don't actually have to win; you just have to fight.
"

God, I love that. And ya know? He's right. All you have to do is believe there
are 7 virgins waiting for you, and there will be. Ah the power of belief. You


But first I got to burn one with John. (Cryptic for smoke a joint) That might be

(or its been way too long) or they wouldn't be like that.

Yes Nemesis since the 60's most Americans have known,
 ( a peace drug, The American Indians called a peace pipe. ) Remember that song,
"TIME" . time has come today. well here we are.

I had another exciting thought just then, it keeps pouring in now. Overwhelmed,
later,

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On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 07:03:14 -0500, nemesis wrote:

> I'll reiterate:  there's no evidence that shootings in schools happened
> or were not isolated incidents before becoming widespread after the
> 1990's... we're definitely witnessing something new here.  Some may want
> to live in denial, others have an urge to talk about it and try to do
> something about it.

Who's living in denial?  Have you looked at the references I cited?

Jim

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On Sat, 16 Feb 2008 21:19:07 -0500, nemesis wrote:

> Jim Henderson <nos### [at] nospamcom> wrote:
>> (And before you say "well, that's 1996", read the page title - it says
>> "RECENT worldwide school shootings")
> 
> well, wikipedia is of course always more detailed:
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_shooting

Yes, and I had a look at that page as well.

> No reports of school shootings before that.  

That you've found.  Again, just because YOU didn't find it doesn't mean 
it didn't happen. <sigh>

> The trend of school
> shooting has certainly grew a lot beginning in the nineties.  It far
> surpassed the political shootings in the 60's, 70's.

Hmmm, Kent state?

>> PLEASE do some research before making false declarations.
> 
> I did.

Clearly not enough.  After all, I found a bunch of other incidents that 
predated your statistics and it didn't take a lot of time to do so.

>> > Never heard of school shootings before, even here in Brazil's
>> > favelas...
>>
>> Just because you've never heard of them doesn't mean they haven't
>> happened.
> 
> No, because daily we see in the news conflicts between cops and drug
> dealers in the favelas.  Whenever any passer-by is shot, it generates
> huge crowds, big news in TV.  If shootings happened in schools, it would
> be everywhere, politicals would show up in TV etc.

And that would've happened in the 50s or the 60s as well?  Or the 20s?  
Or the 1890s?  And you know this how?

Times change.  News didn't used to be sensationalized the way it is now.

>> They seem to think that because THEY haven't seen it, it must not have
>> happened?
> 
> I haven't seen UFOs.  I don't discard their existence altogether though.
> I haven't personally seen the Holocaust, but I believe those old and
> disturbing B&W photos and films were authentic.
> I haven't seen Jesus, yet I'm a believer.
> 
> I haven't seen documented school shootings in past ages, nor any
> evidence of it in literary works.  I have no motives to believe our
> grandparents were living in denial.

So, you haven't seen proof of some things and you believe them, and you 
haven't seen proof of other things and don't believe them.

So much for standards.

Jim

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On Sun, 17 Feb 2008 10:25:36 -0500, alphaQuad wrote:

> Now Jim, you said you are doing something to make a difference. Try
> doing something that will really make a difference. Like I am.

<sarcasm>

Yeah, because you sure as hell have gotten him on your side now, haven't 
you?  Yep, I can sure feel the love and understanding he's showing you.

Well done.  Well done indeed.

</sarcasm>

Calling people idiots and stupid doesn't do your cause any good at all.  
One of these days, you'll wake up to that fact.

Jim

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On Sat, 16 Feb 2008 23:37:59 -0500, Sabrina Kilian wrote:

> Jim Henderson wrote:
>> On Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:32:35 -0500, Sabrina Kilian wrote:
>> 
>>> The problem that I saw, first hand in the USA high school system, is
>>> that there is often no hope. I don't work in a school, so I can't
>>> observe how it's changed over time. But I did ask some others people
>>> for their memories of school. There have always been cliques, but it
>>> seems that kids have been getting more and more insular and stopped
>>> talking to people not in their group. Whether the 5 year olds playing
>>> team sports, or parents arranging strict play dates is to blame for
>>> this is another discussion.
>>>
>>> So kids grow up with much less of a safety net, and very few people to
>>> talk to when things go wrong. Take a common occurrence, a fight within
>>> one of these small groups of kids. One kid singled out, where do they
>>> go and who can they turn to?
>> 
>> Well, from my own experience (I was a loner/nerd/geek all through
>> school
> 
> Was that actually a clique then? =)

Not so much, no - it was a label. :-)

>> through the 70s and 80s), school counseling can help.  When I was in
>> 3rd or 4th grade, I used to meet with a school counselor once or twice
>> a week.  We'd talk, play cards, whatever - it was a chance at
>> interaction that I wasn't getting from my peers.
>> 
> Poor rural school I went to had guidance counselors. While they were
> great at helping students find the right colleges to apply to, their
> advice over disputes was a little lacking. I think some advice I heard
> was to 'stick up for yourself' as a deterrent to bullying. While not the
> best way to stick up for themselves, violence does fit against that
> simple instruction.

Well, it can, but it doesn't always.  I also had guidance counselors in 
high school, but I rarely went to see them.  In fact, just for college 
entrance stuff, now I think about it.

>> Now while I am arguing one on one side that school shootings/violence
>> isn't anything new, the frequency can be somewhat alarming - but things
>> like kids getting together and arranging to meet out in the playground
>> after school for a fistfight is something I remember from my early
>> elementary school days in the late 70's.
>> 
> So the violence has been there for at least 30 years. That's not what's
> changed.

Yes, agreed.

>>> IMO, the problem isn't the guns or these kids either killing
>>> themselves or killing others before they kill them self. It's that
>>> these situations occur in the first place.
>> 
>> Well, part of the problem is that they've managed to get their hands on
>> the weapons - and that's down to poor parental supervision in many
>> cases of modern school violence.  That certainly can be demonstrated to
>> be the case in the Columbine event - the parents appeared to be totally
>> clueless that their kids were out in the garage making pipe bombs.
>> 
> I don't know, I've heard that back in the 50's and 60's schools actually
> had hunting clubs, and boys keeping their rifle in the locker wasn't
> that uncommon.

True, hadn't thought of that.  But I don't think the parents were unaware 
of that, either.  It seems that many parents (certainly not all) treat 
their kids as a fashion accessory - they don't know how to parent, so 
they let others raise their kids for them, or were basically 
disinterested in being involved in their kids lives.

> I'd say part of the problem is a lack of respect, for each other and
> life in general.

Agreed.  And learning that respect is something that happens at home as 
well as in school settings.

>> Well, my own experience with the school counselor back in elementary
>> school was that the school provided him for that service.  Maybe
>> schools don't do that any more, though - I don't know.
>> 
> My school might have offered one, but rumors fly in a small area. 4th
> graders and cousins who hear through the grape vine can both be very
> cruel.

It doesn't have to be a small area.  My first elementary school had 
something like 1500 students in it in total; kids can be cruel.  It 
doesn't take a small area or a large area.

But kids don't seem to learn coping skills that help them deal with 
problems in a sane way.  Today they seem to be generally coddled by the 
system and told "it's OK" - and at the same time, they're passed through 
grades when they really shouldn't be because we don't want to "hurt their 
self-esteem".  Then when a really crushing event happens in their life, 
they're ill-prepared to cope with it and they snap.

A kid who has made his way through the public education system and been 
told all along that failure is OK getting into the workforce, where he 
screws up and then gets fired for incompetence is a great way to get an 
office building shot up.

>>> Or worse, is convinced that anyone who gets counseling is already too
>>> far gone to be helped.
>> 
>> I'm sure that happens too.
>> 
> 
> One day visiting a counselor will be like seeing a doctor for an ear
> infection. Till then, ask a kid, grade school to college age, whether
> they would prefer to be healthy or to maintain their image.

Well, in my case there wasn't an image to protect, because I was rejected 
by most of the kids in school anyways, except for a very small group who 
basically tolerated me, and one or two friends.

There's a reason I will never go to any reunions (I went to my 5-year, 
what a waste that was).  Those people made my life growing up miserable.

Jim

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