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On Sun, 18 May 2008 11:18:42 -0500, Mueen Nawaz wrote:
> Jim Henderson wrote:
>> Fair enough - in past conversations, I hadn't noticed that behaviour
>> before from you, so it caught me a little off guard. ;-)
>
> I was just testing some waters.
Well, no fault there - I do that myself enough as it is. :-)
> I did find the original comment to be quite judgmental, and I was
a bit
> reactive to it, because I often hear such stuff locally. Given the local
> context, I felt most of them are unjustified (and if I wanted, could
> often find plenty of flaws in their own parenting...). Some people just
> have certain "rules". If you don't hug your kid, you're a bad parent. If
> you don't throw birthday parties, you're a bad parent. If you don't buy
> your daughter dolls, you're a bad parent. Those rules are applied
> without looking at the whole picture.
>
> Based on your reply, that didn't seem to be the case there.
Oh, no, absolutely not. We're not the kind of people who reach a
conclusion (generally - of course we do slip from time to time, but it is
rare) without looking at the whole situation - we've been on the
receiving end of that more than once (we home-schooled Ken through high
school, you want to talk about being on the receiving end of snap
judgments, that's one way to become a target, especially living so close
to the school he used to go to). It's extremely rare that we come to a
conclusion like that on an individual basis (though we do see trends of
that behaviour all around us - Utah is a place where large families are
frequently the norm, and often times this leads to burn-out on the part
of the mom and kids end up raising each other, but without the kind of
family support structure that was present a couple generations ago. And
yes, it is usually mom burning out - since the dad's the primary
breadwinner in many of these families.)
Jim
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Jim Henderson wrote:
> receiving end of that more than once (we home-schooled Ken through high
> school, you want to talk about being on the receiving end of snap
> judgments, that's one way to become a target, especially living so close
> to the school he used to go to). It's extremely rare that we come to a
Yes, I've heard homeschooling tends to be opposed for no good reason.
If I ever have kids, I'd like to homeschool them as well. The
feasibility of either (for me) remains to be seen.<G>
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On Sun, 18 May 2008 18:17:15 -0500, Mueen Nawaz wrote:
> Jim Henderson wrote:
>> receiving end of that more than once (we home-schooled Ken through high
>> school, you want to talk about being on the receiving end of snap
>> judgments, that's one way to become a target, especially living so
>> close to the school he used to go to). It's extremely rare that we
>> come to a
>
> Yes, I've heard homeschooling tends to be opposed for no good
> reason.
We've heard everything from "it turns kids into sociopaths" to "it turns
kids into homicidal maniacs". Having done the homeschooling thing, the
most important thing we found was making sure to provide as broad an
experience as possible. Many parents who homeschool limit the kids'
exposure to the world at large in order to further ingrain their values
in their kids (teaching kids values is always a good thing; but doing so
by not exposing them to the world can be damaging/problematic when they
encounter the real world). For us it was a no-brainer, because the
values that we have are that the best way to talk with people is to
understand them, and you can't do that by not interacting with them.
> If I ever have kids, I'd like to homeschool them as well. The
> feasibility of either (for me) remains to be seen.<G>
It does take a lot of time, and there are costs involved. One of the
other very important things is to ensure the child doesn't become
isolated from others their age. For us that wasn't a problem because Ken
started out in public school, then went to a private school for a few
years, so he had a few friends. We homeschooled out of necessity (he was
more advanced than the public school kids at his age, so he couldn't go
back there, and we pulled him out of the private school because of some
safety issues that became apparent in their required outdoor program -
and some problems with the headmaster lying to us about those safety
issues). The only other reputable private school was booked up, so our
options were fairly limited if we wanted to keep Ken interested in
learning.
Jim
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And lo on Fri, 16 May 2008 20:33:28 +0100, Jim Henderson
<nos### [at] nospam com> did spake, saying:
> On Fri, 16 May 2008 09:12:49 +0100, Phil Cook wrote:
>
>> And lo on Thu, 15 May 2008 20:41:13 +0100, Jim Henderson
>> <nos### [at] nospam com> did spake, saying:
>>
>>> On Wed, 14 May 2008 23:12:11 -0400, Sabrina Kilian wrote:
>>>
>>>> On Tue, 13 May 2008 23:58:45 -0400, Jim Henderson wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> This is true of many drugs in general, IMHO.
>>>>>
>>>> Yup, at least here in the USA. Every drug has a theme and a catchy new
>>>> name for a disorder that's been around for a long time. But the one
>>>> with the catchiest words gets prescribed.
>>>
>>> Yeah, and that's a huge societal problem.
>>
>> Just because the people being advertised at have no ability to make an
>> objective choice over these medications doesn't mean they shouldn't be
>> advertised in the same way as shampoo or washing powder. Just as for
>> them if the product doesn't work for you just switch; no harm done
>> right? [cough]
>
> Heh, better watch out, your sarcasm tags are showing, Phil. ;-)
Me sarcastic? No, you must have me mistaken for someone else.
But seriously what next "Ask your doctor to use PhilCo extra-sharp
needles", "Did you know 1 in 20 Americans get a reaction from alcohol
swabs, why not ask your doctor to use PhilCo anti-allergen swabs", "Why
weren't your test results processed in a PhilCo machine? Get your results
back faster and with a greater degree of precision then compared to other
leading test machine brands", or "Is your doctor using standard seat
cushions in their waiting rooms? Tests show that normal seats can retain
germs for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't want to
catch what they've got"
[snort] My my the way my mind works - "Is your airline using standard seat
cushions in their planes? Tests show that normal seats can hide terrorists
for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't want you and
your family to end up dead"
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On Mon, 19 May 2008 16:15:29 +0100, Phil Cook wrote:
>> Heh, better watch out, your sarcasm tags are showing, Phil. ;-)
>
> Me sarcastic? No, you must have me mistaken for someone else.
Oh, I don't think so. ;-)
> But seriously what next "Ask your doctor to use PhilCo extra-sharp
> needles", "Did you know 1 in 20 Americans get a reaction from alcohol
> swabs, why not ask your doctor to use PhilCo anti-allergen swabs",
Hey, that could help with my allergy shots.
> "Why
> weren't your test results processed in a PhilCo machine? Get your
> results back faster and with a greater degree of precision then compared
> to other leading test machine brands", or "Is your doctor using standard
> seat cushions in their waiting rooms? Tests show that normal seats can
> retain germs for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't
> want to catch what they've got"
LOL
> [snort] My my the way my mind works - "Is your airline using standard
> seat cushions in their planes? Tests show that normal seats can hide
> terrorists for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't
> want you and your family to end up dead"
Why am I suddenly hearing George Carlin? ;-)
Jim
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And lo on Mon, 19 May 2008 16:16:59 +0100, Jim Henderson
<nos### [at] nospam com> did spake, saying:
> On Mon, 19 May 2008 16:15:29 +0100, Phil Cook wrote:
>
>>> Heh, better watch out, your sarcasm tags are showing, Phil. ;-)
>>
>> Me sarcastic? No, you must have me mistaken for someone else.
>
> Oh, I don't think so. ;-)
>
>> But seriously what next "Ask your doctor to use PhilCo extra-sharp
>> needles", "Did you know 1 in 20 Americans get a reaction from alcohol
>> swabs, why not ask your doctor to use PhilCo anti-allergen swabs",
>
> Hey, that could help with my allergy shots.
PhilCo, serving the needs of tomorrow yesterday.
>> "Why
>> weren't your test results processed in a PhilCo machine? Get your
>> results back faster and with a greater degree of precision then compared
>> to other leading test machine brands", or "Is your doctor using standard
>> seat cushions in their waiting rooms? Tests show that normal seats can
>> retain germs for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't
>> want to catch what they've got"
>
> LOL
"Is this you stuck in a queue at your local megamarket? If so chances are
they're using a slow and outdated till. See this like-for-like comparision
between two queues, one using a standard till and the other a PhilCo 8000.
Your time is precious, why wait, ask your megamarket to buy a PhilCo 8000
today."
I mean it's nuts nobody would think about getting customers to suggest a
store invest in a particular brand of till, or CCTV camera, or floor tile
and advertisers won't bother targetting them. Yet talk about
pharmaceuticals and bam everyone's a bleedin' expert based on a one-minute
infomercial on the benefits of Bendroxalphaltimine over other brands.
Meh I'm just weary of this I caught a Ch4 thing on the claims of cosmetic
companies. 'So long as they don't make medicinal claims then they can say
what they like without any clinical studies being published' I just love
to read the small print they have to publish '75% of women said they
noticed a difference' - based on a survey of 52 women; wooh that's
statistically valid.
The funny part was that Ch4 blind-tested some women with cheap to
expensive products and most of the ones seemed to claim a difference after
four weeks. That was until they were re-examined by dermatolgists who came
back with the results that a few had improved, a few had not changed, and
a few had got worse; with no apparent difference between the £5 tube of
moisturiser and the £100+ complete skin care range.
Oh and all the companies asked to comment on this result came back with a
'well our surveys/studies were larger then yours, but we're not going to
let you see them'
>> [snort] My my the way my mind works - "Is your airline using standard
>> seat cushions in their planes? Tests show that normal seats can hide
>> terrorists for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't
>> want you and your family to end up dead"
>
> Why am I suddenly hearing George Carlin? ;-)
I don't know, has he just rung you? :-P
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On Mon, 19 May 2008 16:58:44 +0100, Phil Cook wrote:
>> Hey, that could help with my allergy shots.
>
> PhilCo, serving the needs of tomorrow yesterday.
Better that than "serving the needs of yesterday tomorrow". :-)
>> LOL
>
> "Is this you stuck in a queue at your local megamarket? If so chances
> are they're using a slow and outdated till. See this like-for-like
> comparision between two queues, one using a standard till and the other
> a PhilCo 8000. Your time is precious, why wait, ask your megamarket to
> buy a PhilCo 8000 today."
LOL, if I start laughing and have to explain to coworkers. Bugger,
forgot to mute my phone and had to explain about cats fighting outside....
> I mean it's nuts nobody would think about getting customers to suggest a
> store invest in a particular brand of till, or CCTV camera, or floor
> tile and advertisers won't bother targetting them. Yet talk about
> pharmaceuticals and bam everyone's a bleedin' expert based on a
> one-minute infomercial on the benefits of Bendroxalphaltimine over other
> brands.
Yep, I agree with this. Then you get people who have no background in
pharmacology or chemistry making claims about drugs based on those 60-
second spots.
> of women said they noticed a difference' - based on a survey of 52
> women; wooh that's statistically valid.
Heh, yeah, gotta love that.
> The funny part was that Ch4 blind-tested some women with cheap to
> expensive products and most of the ones seemed to claim a difference
> after four weeks. That was until they were re-examined by dermatolgists
> who came back with the results that a few had improved, a few had not
> changed, and a few had got worse; with no apparent difference between
> the £5 tube of moisturiser and the £100+ complete skin care range.
I see this kind of thing fairly regularly - it's amazing what you can
sell people on, and how gullible the average person really is.
> Oh and all the companies asked to comment on this result came back with
> a 'well our surveys/studies were larger then yours, but we're not going
> to let you see them'
Yeah. Get 'em on video saying that, that'll tank their marketing as long
as enough people see it. Get Newsnight to do an expose on it. ;-)
>> Why am I suddenly hearing George Carlin? ;-)
>
> I don't know, has he just rung you? :-P
Heh, wishful thinking - he doesn't know me from Adam. I was thinking
about his bit on jumping up and down on seat cushions...
Jim
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On Mon, 19 May 2008 16:15:29 +0100, "Phil Cook"
<phi### [at] nospamrocain freeserve co uk> wrote:
>[snort] My my the way my mind works -
You flatter yourself <g>
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On Mon, 19 May 2008 16:58:44 +0100, "Phil Cook"
<phi### [at] nospamrocain freeserve co uk> wrote:
Vaseline is the best and your boyfriend can use it too :)
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Phil Cook wrote:
> [snort] My my the way my mind works - "Is your airline using standard
> seat cushions in their planes? Tests show that normal seats can hide
> terrorists for up to two days. Ask for a PhilCo seat because you don't
> want you and your family to end up dead"
I literally laughed out loud on this one!
Sam
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