Am 23.01.2013 20:21, schrieb Jim Henderson:

> It's been my experience (and it may be different for Joerg, so I'm
> speaking in general terms here) that just saying "well, stop doing that"
> makes things /worse/, because often times the individual then is made to
> feel that they're inadequate because they /can't/ because the compulsion
> is so strong.

Indeed; maybe more important than to get rid of the compulsion is to 
accept the compulsion in a neutral fashion, as a fact of life. Nothing 
to be proud of, but nothing to be ashamed of either.

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