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From: Orchid XP v3
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 1 Oct 2007 16:59:14
Message: <47015fa2$1@news.povray.org>
St. wrote:

>     Wooah. One of the sentences in that last paragraph is SO wrong Andrew. 
> Re-read it as if 'she' was reading it.

Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...

(Knowing the girl in question, she'd probably just laugh. She works with 
petrol-heads all day, after all...)

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From: Jim Henderson
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 1 Oct 2007 17:01:26
Message: <47016026$1@news.povray.org>
On Mon, 01 Oct 2007 21:59:43 +0100, Orchid XP v3 wrote:

> St. wrote:
> 
>>     Wooah. One of the sentences in that last paragraph is SO wrong
>>     Andrew.
>> Re-read it as if 'she' was reading it.
> 
> Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...
> 
> (Knowing the girl in question, she'd probably just laugh. She works with
> petrol-heads all day, after all...)

We're just saying it's a matter of presentation, but still, if it's 
something she'd laugh off, that's less of a problem. :-)

Jim


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From: St 
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 1 Oct 2007 18:08:57
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"Orchid XP v3" <voi### [at] devnull> wrote in message 
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> St. wrote:
>
>>     Wooah. One of the sentences in that last paragraph is SO wrong 
>> Andrew. Re-read it as if 'she' was reading it.
>
> Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...

     Hmm... Good luck.

         ~Steve~




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From: Warp
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 1 Oct 2007 22:20:49
Message: <4701ab01@news.povray.org>
Why does this remind me of densha otoko?

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From: andrel
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 15:41:39
Message: <47029FF3.2010809@hotmail.com>
Orchid XP v3 wrote:
> St. wrote:
> 
>>     Wooah. One of the sentences in that last paragraph is SO wrong 
>> Andrew. Re-read it as if 'she' was reading it.
> 
> Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...
No, we just care for our mascot. Which reminds me...
did you already propose yourself as a mascot for their F1 team?
You do have a reputation in that area.

> 
> (Knowing the girl in question, she'd probably just laugh. 
Don't be too sure about that...
> She works with petrol-heads all day, after all...)
...there may be a reason for her not having a boyfriend among those.


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From: Orchid XP v3
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 15:51:23
Message: <4702a13b$1@news.povray.org>
andrel wrote:

>> Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...

> No, we just care for our mascot.

Ah, I *see*... So the constant criticising and belittling is becuase you 
guys actually *like* me? I was confused about that part...

> Which reminds me...
> did you already propose yourself as a mascot for their F1 team?
> You do have a reputation in that area.

LOL!

>> (Knowing the girl in question, she'd probably just laugh. 
> Don't be too sure about that...
>> She works with petrol-heads all day, after all...)
> ...there may be a reason for her not having a boyfriend among those.

Yeah, I was wondering about that... Clearly very extravert and 
self-confident girl, bursting with attractiveness, spends all day 
working with blokes... and she's... single? WTH??

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From: andrel
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 15:58:07
Message: <4702A3CF.4030009@hotmail.com>
Orchid XP v3 wrote:
> andrel wrote:
> 
>>> Hmm. I think you're taking me a tad too seriously...
> 
>> No, we just care for our mascot.
> 
> Ah, I *see*... So the constant criticising and belittling is because you 
> guys actually *like* me? 
yes. (The fact that you might stop bothering us when you have finally 
found a nice girl might play a role too.)
> I was confused about that part...
> 
We said so time and time again, but if you did not believe us then, why 
would you now?


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From: Orchid XP v3
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 16:35:06
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andrel wrote:

>> Ah, I *see*... So the constant criticising and belittling is because 
>> you guys actually *like* me? 
> yes. (The fact that you might stop bothering us when you have finally 
> found a nice girl might play a role too.)

And to think I was worried about this:

http://www.xkcd.com/306/

Hey, wait...! o_O

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From: Jim Henderson
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 19:04:14
Message: <4702ce6e$1@news.povray.org>
On Tue, 02 Oct 2007 20:51:54 +0100, Orchid XP v3 wrote:

>> No, we just care for our mascot.
> 
> Ah, I *see*... So the constant criticising and belittling is becuase you
> guys actually *like* me? I was confused about that part...

Well, speaking for myself, it's never my intention to criticise or 
belittle you - but I can see how maybe it comes across that way sometimes.

It's just that when you make what (with a little more experience) is 
possibly a critical mistake, I at least am trying to speak up and say 
"been there, done that, it doesn't work (or didn't for me)" emphatically 
enough.

I was talking with my wife about this yesterday or the day before, 
actually, and it occurred to me that you're probably not at the point yet 
where you've made the mistakes that some of the rest of us have already 
learned from (like the comment about "getting into her pants"), but that 
maybe you say things like that here to see what the reaction is because 
this is a "safe" place for that kind of experimentation.

Or maybe not.

But either way, don't stop trying things out.  That's IMHO the best way 
to learn.

As for why she's still single - some people are strongly averse to dating 
in the workplace, because if you break up, that makes it more difficult - 
you still see them every day, even possibly have to work with them every 
day.  Some people aren't comfortable with that thought or idea.

Some employers expressly forbid dating coworkers - though it's not as 
common now as it used to be, I think; my dad's first wife was a woman he 
worked with, and they had to elope to get married - couldn't let anyone 
in the office know they were dating.  She quit once they got married.

When I started working for Novell, though, there was a couple in the 
training sales department who were married (and, coincidentally, also 
shared the same surname as I - but no relation).

Some people who are extroverted also like having a relationship outside 
of the environment where they "have" to be "on" all the time; a good 
friend of mine in the UK is very extroverted when he's with a group of 
people, but when he's with family (and we are fortunate enough that he 
considers us family) he is a lot less outspoken - and he's commented that 
it's nice to not have to be "on" all the time.

Jim


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From: Jim Henderson
Subject: Re: Her again
Date: 2 Oct 2007 21:38:48
Message: <4702f2a8$1@news.povray.org>
On Tue, 02 Oct 2007 19:04:14 -0400, Jim Henderson wrote:

> But either way, don't stop trying things out.  That's IMHO the best way
> to learn.

Let me rephrase - trying things out is the second best way to learn, but 
the most effective way to learn.

The best way to learn is to learn from other people's mistakes - but 
often times the lessons of other people's mistakes don't stick with you 
as well as your own.

Jim


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