Am 12.06.2010 19:38, schrieb Orchid XP v8:

> Well... my mother always said "if you don't have anything nice to say,
> don't say anything". Maybe I need to apply that to talking about me?

Yup. It /does/ have an effect.

>> Could it be that being a loser once used to be a way for you to gain
>> something? Attention perhaps?
>>
>> Gee, and we're delivering just that right now...
>
>  From what I've seen, *not* being a loser gets you way, way more
> attention. Of a more satisfying kind. (Although not _all_ necessarily
> good...)

/Knowing/ a fact does not necessarily prevent people from acting 
according to earlier contrary conditioning. In early childhood (and even 
later in life), people learn a lot that they're not even aware of, some 
of which may be pretty bogus.

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