Orchid XP v8 <voi### [at] devnull> wrote:
> It's all to easy to believe that "oh if only I could just be brave 
> enough to do X, everything would instantly be perfect then". Life isn't 
> like that. Girls don't sit there and think "oh wow, that ugly nerd guy 
> in the corner ignoring everybody is SO CUTE. If only he'd come over here 
> and ask me to marry him." They think "that ugly nerd guy in the corner 
> ignoring everybody is some kind of jerk".

  How it works in real life is that you go to the gal and compliment her
for whatever, or depending on the environment, invite her to a drink or
something. If se obviously thinks you are a creep, then you forget about
it and try it another day with someone else. At some point you will find
one who will not consider you a creep but charming.

  Of course it helps if you can keep up interesting smalltalk, but without
trying to sound too smart.

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                                                          - Warp

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