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>> It just seems everywhere I go, everybody else falls into a completely
>> different age group to me.
>
> Rule #1 : Never refuse friendship with someone because they are not a
> young single hot girl.
Fair enough. But [for example] the people I go dancing with are all
decades older than me, and we just have nothing in common. I try to find
things to talk about, but it's really a struggle.
(Then again, finding anything to talk about is a struggle for me. I
guess I'm just too damned boring.)
It just seems everywhere I do, I don't fit in. Hell, even my gaming
clan; they're all gamers. I'm the only actual computer nerd.
> Rule #2 : Act with your friends in a way that would make you attractive
> to girls. Girls are not going to like you if your friends say to them
> "he's really boring, he just moans about work and his life the whole
> time". If you are more positive then they will say "oh you should meet
> Andrew, he's a really good guy". Maybe :-)
Maybe this is why I fail. I mean, let's face it, aside from being a nice
guy with a good heart, I have absolutely no redeeming features. Why
should anybody go to the bother of getting to know me? What's in it for
them? It's not like there's anything worth-while about me...
> You might try joining some activity group to make new friends, some of
> mine use this place in the UK:
>
> http://www.spiceuk.com/home
It's worth a look if nothing else.
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