gregjohn wrote:
> "Slime" <fak### [at] emailaddress> wrote:
> 
>>>Everybody who's bothered to get to know me apparently really likes me. And
>>>yet, girls ignore me.
>>>
>>>Marcus, on the other hand, is an arsehole. And girls really like him.
>>
>>He's confident and aggressive, whereas you're shy and self-deprecating.
>>
> 
> 
> Here's a dangerous sociological hypothesis:  are men who see themselves on the
> wrong side of the above equation in their late teens more likely to marry
> someone from a different culture/ race in their later twenties?  It's like, in
> your sheltered little community, you're a loser. When you step out and grow up
> a bit and meet a different kind of people, you meet folks who don't judge you
> based on prior knowledge of your having been such a loser in kindergarten, and
> somehow your mind associates nicer women with the new culture you stepped into,
> and WHAM! suddenly you've got a lovely wife in your late twenties who has a very
> different accent.
> 
> 
> 

You definitely have to go to the next village at least.  Yeah it's hard 
to get any traction with girls who knew you when you were showing off 
your Buzz Lightyear underpants.

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