>> Besides, that was the fourth or fifth trip to that particular bar, and 
>> it's the first time I saw any girls there. Obviously I'm going to the 
>> wrong places.
> 
> That's not enough of a sample to really get a feel for a place.  You 
> need to go on different days, at different times (some places are wildly 
> different depending if you go right after work, after dinner, later at 
> night, or after midnight).

Why would I even be *awake* after midnight?!

Anyway, if you meet people at a bar, you're going to meet people who 
like going out to bars. Given that I don't, this is probably not a good 
idea.

> Keep trying :)

I'd rather do something that has some possibility of success.

>> This seems to be the general theme in everything I try, whether I'm 
>> looking to meet a girl or just make a few friends. Everywhere I do, I 
>> have nothing in common with anybody. I'm always the odd one out.
> 
> If you only try a few times and then quit, then yeah, you're not going 
> to accomplish anything.  Failure is only failure until you succeed.

Any idea how long the alchemists spent trying to turn lead into gold?

Do you think they should have kept trying longer?

> Keep 
> going out, having fun, and don't worry about whether or not you'll find 
> anyone.  Just have a good time, and take advantage of whatever 
> opportunities present themselves :)

That's just it. Sitting alone in a room full of people staring at me 
like I'm a bug-eyed monster is *not fun*. There has to be a better way...

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