One of your main character faults is that you judge things that you have 
never seen.
Sure, there may be places in London that you don't want to live, but 
there are also places that you could happily live in. London is simply 
too big to lump it all together. Especially not if your only experience 
is from  a casual visit to the city center.

I am rather sure that you have never been to Germany so your remarks 
about that country are simply inappropriate.

I don't recall that you have visited Amsterdam or the Netherlands in 
general. Again there are places you don't want to live in but also 
places that are much better than MK on an objective scale, though 
possibly not yours. Same for France (though they have the added problem 
of no speaking English) or Switzerland or Finland or...

Aside from that, there is still that problem that you may want to live 
somewhere but you also have to work there. ATM you are moderately not 
unhappy not to live outside MK, but you don't want to work there. If you 
move to another place where they do have an interesting and fulfilling 
job, you may have to move. So you won't live where you want to. Or do 
you? Is there any guarantee that after living there for a few months you 
still won't like the place?

Totally aside: is there a nice psychiatric term for your condition. It 
clearly is some kind of phobia, but perhaps it is so rare that it does 
not have a name. Anyone knows?

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