On Sun, 13 Jul 2008 20:12:21 +0100, Orchid XP v8 wrote:

>>> Although a few days ago, her profile on Facebook had the caption "Kate
>>> is looking for somebody but isn't sure where to find them", and
>>> yesterday it changed to "Kate is giving up on men, no offence to any
>>> but not more head messings please!" I'm confused...
>> 
>> This tells me that she's still dealing with issues from her last
>> relationship.
> 
> "Kate is thinking there is room for improvment...could be very happy
> depends if they agree:)."

I'm not sure I follow here...

>> It *usually* isn't personal (one could never say unequivocally that
>> it's *never* personal).  Fear is a powerful emotion and causes people
>> to behave in inconsistent ways.
> 
> Yep, I'm confused... :-S
> 
> Oh, and she hasn't called by yet like she "promised". I'm guessing she's
> busy rather than her not wanting to call me... (But then, maybe I'm just
> being too optimistic?)

Or it could be that she's still dealing with fallout from that last 
relationship.  The problem with abusers is that unless they're held 
accountable, they tend to come back.  IME, abusive personalities don't 
tend to take "no" for an answer.

Jim

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