On Thu, 10 Jul 2008 21:27:07 +0100, Orchid XP v8 wrote:

>>> How about "once or twice per week"? Because that's roughly how often
>>> I've contacted him to arrange to meet up. :-P
>> 
>> Have you actually spoken to him?  Do you know he's not out of town?
> 
> Yeah. I get emails or text messages from him quite often, and I phone
> him now and then. But it seems frustratingly difficult to arrange to
> actually meet up.

Some people lead busy lives.  It happens.  I'd be surprised if it was 
intentional.

> Last weekend, we arranged to meet, but then he ate a kebab and spent the
> entire weeking puking.
> 
> The weekend before that, we arranged to meet, and on friday we went out
> for "a few drinks", and spent the entire weeking with a hangover.
> 
> Next weekend he's going on a trip.
> 
> Would you like me to continue?

Like I said, some people lead busy lives.  At least two of those events 
seem to be unanticipated.  Shit happens. <shrug>

> (And girlie is apparently even more busy, and not too keen on meeting me
> alone it seems...)

So start with something with a small group, or in a public place.

Jim

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